5 reasons to break up with him.

When I was 17, I had my first boyfriend. It was all butterflies and roses at the start. I was young and messed up from my teenagehood so I accepted the love he gave me and thought it was what I deserve. He never gave me gifts, never cared about my birthdays, never showed me how much he loves me, he was stubborn to the point he refused to talk to me for more than 3 days if we fight and on top of all this he made me feel worthless. I ignored all the signs, spent 2 years with him and had my self-esteem destroyed by him. After years, I have realized that I can't do this anymore. I ended the relationship and I was surprised that he didn't even bother to work things out. He was okay with the breakup because he had" so much ego "as he says. Today I'm going to share what signs opened up my eyes and made me make the move. I know a lot of you girls out there don't have someone to talk to or ask for help, so here I am.



5- He is selfish 
He always thinks about what makes him happy. He wants to suck all the love out of you but never gives the same. He expects things from you that he never does.


4- He is NOT romantic 
Ok we get it, not all men are romantic and I'm pretty sure not all girls want a super romantic guy but if a guy really loves you and cares about you he'll do romantic things without even thinking much of it. He will send you that morning text because he wants you to know that you are always in his mind.

3- He doesn't respect your family and friends
Here the thing, if a guy loves you he will put in the effort to try and get along with people you love because he knows how important they are for you. He will try to fit in and make you happy by respecting the ones you love if he doesn't that means he is not willing to put the least of effort for you. I mean it's not that hard to smile to your girlfriend's BFF!

2- He is not welling to change bad habits for you
I know that we can't change anyone and I'm not a fan of that but when you love someone you know they bring out the best of you. If the guy you are with is not turning into the better version of himself and he is not even trying to change things or habits which affect your relationship badly, he is not worth it!

1- you are not happy
at the end of the day, whether your man is all the list above or the sweetest person on earth if you are not happy that's enough reason to break up. relationships are made to make us feel better about this ugly world by bringing love and joy to our lives if that's not the case you have no reason to stay.